How to Manifest Someone to Be Obsessed With You

How to Manifest Someone to Be Obsessed With You

As a person who found out about manifesting just by chance, it became a helpful way of getting what I desire into my own hands; literally. 

So would you like to bring whatever you desire into your own hands?

Do you want your ex back, because it occurs to you to ask why do I keep seeing my ex everywhere?

Is this a sex urge to want to create this obsession that you have been wondering, why do I want to sleep with him so badly?

What ever is your motive, it’s honestly quite easy to manifest a text, relationship, money, a job, literally anything you desire.

There are many methods for Law of Attraction, I’ve tried almost all of them, so here is what worked for me and will hopefully work for you. 

The Mindset

Step one in all manifesting and Law of Attraction work is getting your mindset right. 

 Desperation, neediness, and an overall negative mindset can hinder your desires from coming true. 

A good way to think of it as follows, you order something online and you know it’s gonna arrive, you may check the mailbox out of eagerness or excitement but you’re certain it’ll arrive eventually.

So apply that to any manifestation work you do, trust that it’ll happen and you are powerful. 

  • Lose the negativity
  • Trust that what you want will come to you. It’ll come to you when it’s meant to.
  • Nothing is impossible, whatever you want you can have.

Negativity Exercise 

  • Grab a notebook, title it whatever you’re trying to attract.
  • Make a list of all the reasons you think it won’t or can’t happen.
  • Then, change all those negatives into positives.

For example: 
“I don’t think I will get a text from them because they left me on read.”

That is a negative thought, so turn it around.

“I know I will get a text from them because we haven’t talked in a while and they miss me.” 

It obviously will differ on what you’re attracting and you can word things in many ways, but turn those negatives into positives.

Change why you think it’s impossible and believe it is possible. 

3 Best Ways of Manifesting

My personal favorite method and one that I can definitely say has worked is scripting. 

This is where you write down a “diary” entry of what you’re attracting as if it’s already happened like it’s a memory.

I typically make it a page or so, including specifics, how grateful I am, and all that I want to happen; you can make it as long as you want. 

Here is a list of short examples: 

  • “I am so grateful and happy that I received a text from _ we had a really fun conversation.” 
  • “Wow, so yesterday I found a twenty-dollar bill hidden in the pocket of my jacket. I’ve been really low on money so this is wonderful.” 
  • “I cannot believe _ is obsessed with me, we talked all night and they told me they are obsessed with me and can’t stop thinking about me.” 

You can go into great detail when doing scripting and pour all your desires out onto the page.

I do scripting quite frequently and I honestly think it is one of the best ways to manifest.

It is almost like you’re putting out there what you want to happen, you are literally putting it in writing that it happened. 

Scripting is very similar to affirmations. 

It also helps you stay positive and keeps you believing in yourself and believing you’re deserving of love. 

I used to do these daily, doing about thirty in my notebook and this is by far one of the easiest methods in Law of Attraction.

You can easily combine this with any other method and it’ll help to keep your energy positive. 
Some examples include:

I usually like to do this with long-term manifestations, such as: “Me and hang out all the time, they keep our plans.” 


369 Method
This method works great to manifest someone to text you, or manifest them to miss you and be obsessed with you.

I would typically combine this with scripting, as they work well together.

I have used this method many times and it’s worked every single time.

Meaning, write it three times in the morning, then six times in the afternoon, and nine times before bed. 

I recommend just doing this once, or twice in the same seating and then forgetting about it.

Forgetting about your manifestations, even for a couple of hours sounds difficult but honestly is very easy.

Is it bad to manifest someone to be obsessed with you?

This can be a tricky topic since the free will of the person is involved. 

It’s not impossible or dangerous depending on your intentions.

If you genuinely like somebody and want them to like you back be careful about how you word your manifestations.

Obsessed, is such a strong word. 

I recommend saying, “Attracted” or “Crushing”, at least until you’ve moved further into a relationship with this person.

You can obviously be years into a relationship and decide you want heightened “obsession” with each other. 

Just be cautious and understand what you desire sometimes can be turned on its head by the workings of the universe. 

How to Let Go 

Lastly, letting go and how to do so.

Basically, forget about it. 

As mentioned in the beginning think of your manifestation like something you bought online and are waiting to receive in the mail, you know it’s coming, so trust that it will. 

Don’t obsess over what you’re manifesting in a way that you’re thinking about it 24/7.

This puts out energy that you are desperate and don’t have what you want.

Yes, you probably don’t, but manifesting is secretly about faking it until you make it. 

 Remember to be confident in your own abilities and that what you want will come to you. 

It’s okay if sometimes you’re mad and negative and say “I’m done trying.”, this honestly could be for the best. 

I was manifesting in early January for a relationship and when it didn’t happen I got fed up and stopped trying.

Then, by the end of the month, I had found somebody.

What you desire will come to you, when you let go and stop forcing the flow of things. 

You have to believe in yourself and know that anything is possible, as long as you put in the work and trust in your own powerful abilities.