Why Do I Attract Guys Who Would Want to Sleep With Me
Keep sending signals that you want to sleep with a guy. Do it everywhere you find guys- guys of any age, color, race, religion, marital status, or profession.
Any guy who’s looking for someone to sleep with will likely respond positively to your signal.
Even if you deliberately send the correct signals, not all the guys who correctly perceive the signals will respond positively to you; not all guys are looking for someone to sleep with.
Even the guys looking for someone to sleep with may not get attracted to you; not all guys may want to sleep with you.
If you’re always attracting guys who want to sleep with you, it means you’re sending the right signal to the right guy; this means that you had been relaying the right message to the right guys who found you attractive.
For being attractive, chances are that many other guys with different motives-not to sleep with you- get attracted to you.
For simply being attractive, even if you’re not calling for men to sleep with you, you may likely attract guys who are looking for a one-time encounter or romantic escapade; this could take place even if you don’t intentionally wish to make it happen.
What Attracts a Woman to a Man Sexually
The sexual attraction gives all of us the utmost tearing, hungry, and healing experience. You get the gentleness and harshness. A dance, and then the attack. It is rough and loving.
Being at the Wrong Place Makes You Attract the Wrong Guy
You will not deliberately eat a rotten apple or a spoiled cookie; but when you attend a party where everyone needs to get “high”, a rotten apple or a spoiled cookie won’t make any difference.
When you go to the wrong place you are bound to meet the wrong guys. For example, you go alone to a bar and parade your beauty around; borrowing someone’s analogy, “you’re like a fish who knowingly swam into the fishermen’s den”.
Being at the Wrong Time at the Right Place makes you Send the Wrong Signal
One Sunday past midnight you mindlessly put on a loose blouse over shorts and heed to a nearby convenience store. Here, when prodded by the male attendant, you casually ask for milk and cookies; the attendant may instinctively suspect you’re “looking for trouble” for seeking items you had plenty of time to get before bedtime.
When you go to the right place at the wrong time, you may send the wrong signal to the right person or the right signal to the wrong person.
The Right Signal Makes No Difference to the Wrong Man
The blind can’t see a tree at arm’s length but he can likely smell the tree’s scent or hear its rustling leaves; the sensitivity of the blind’s senses of smell and hearing are nature’s way of compensating for his blindness. This is a common denominator for men who look for women to play with for the sake of pleasure or competition.
“Sports Fishers” is a term aptly applied to a group of men. These men are likened to recreational fishermen who treat catching fish as a form of sport. They catch fish for pleasure or competition.
The sports fishers don’t care how you look, how old you may be, what physical assets you may possess, what race or social status you may come from. The sport Fishers don’t see you as a person.
They behave much like recreational fishermen. They would blindly throw their hook and bait into the water. They could smell the scent of playful floaters or hear the splash of adventurous jumpers. They would catch any fish that swallows the bait.
They catch you as a mere “prize”. Sports fishers may compete for a single prize or who may have the most number of prizes captured.
Rarely does it happen but you may end up being “Natacha Rambova” the last one “Rudolph Valentino” kept for good before he died; otherwise, you’ll be a simple statistic. This happens initially because you’re attractive.
What Do You Have That Attracts Or Repels Mr. Right And Mr. Wrong
Being attractive is the factor that draws admirers-men or women- to you. If this factor is likened to a magnet, what properties does this factor have that pulls others toward you?
Humans are said to subconsciously assume that physically attractive people possess positive characteristics like intelligence and honesty. Studies by evolutionary psychologists reinforced this assumption by putting forward the notion that both general intelligence and physical attractiveness may be indicators of underlying genetic fitness.
This now explains why the attention of ordinary people tends to gravitate or move toward physically attractive persons without first inquiring about their behavior.
In 2014, Professor Yan Zhang from the Huazhong University in China conducted a study that showed people who tend to portray positive personality characteristics-like kindness- are seen as more attractive than people who display negative personality traits.
In 1921, a study argued that natural features like beauty or ugliness of physical attributes, hold a subordinate position to factors like expressive behavior, kindly disposition, graceful manner, steady physical bearing, social achievements, and personal habits.
The studies provide a basis for explaining why people eventually move away from physically attractive people who would later display negative personality traits. Following this explanation, you should no longer wonder why many rich and gorgeous women unceremoniously kick out dashing good-for-nothing partners to provide a place for Mr. Right.
How to Stop Attracting the Wrong Guys
Let’s break down the story of “ATTRACTING MR. RIGHT TO REPEL MR. WRONG”. The story begins with you, living where you are doing what you need to do every day.
Then one day, you realized you needed a Mr. Right to complement your life. You consulted experts to know what qualities you must exude or put in place to attract Mr. Right. You may likely have encountered the following coaching advice:
10 Traits Of A High Value Woman
1. A HEALTHY SELF-ESTEEM AND SELF-WORTH
You demand respectful treatment from men and give them respect in return. You deal with men as a co-equal. You discourage any disrespectful and abusive behaviors from men and refrain from doing them. You will not honor or take part in any activity that demeans your personality and others.
2. BE HAPPY AS A WHOLE PERSON
Pursue your own life as a single person. Find happiness in your undertakings and successes. You may develop a career or establish a business. Eventually, Mr. Right might discover you and enhance your life.
3. SET HIGH VALUE ON YOUR PHYSICAL INTIMACIES
One dating coach encourages modern women to practice sexual independence as long as it´s something that they´ll enjoy doing.
Another coach thinks a high-value woman regulates her display of physical and social intimacies. A high-value woman should offer intimacy to a man after that man had earned it.
4. GIVE THE MAN IMPORTANCE PROPORTIONATE TO HIS LEVEL OF INTEREST.
You must dance to his music. Be aware of how much effort he puts on you. Reciprocate the attention he’s giving you with equal attention.
5. NEVER CHASE A MAN
Coaches agree that it´s a man´s job to pursue you. The job isn’t yours; It´s not your job to pursue him.
6. YOU KNOW HOW TO APPEAL TO HIS CHIVALRY — HIS ROMANTIC SIDE.
You know how to be feminine. You allow him to feel he´s your hero. Even if you´re a CEO, a professional, or a black belt MMA fighter, make him feel he´s your protector, and that he adds value to your life.
7. YOU DON´T ALLOW YOUR DESIRE TO PLEASE A MAN TO STIFLE YOUR AUTHENTICITY.
You gain his respect and adoration when you’re not afraid to disagree with him about things that you genuinely disapprove of.
Refrain from the tendency to please him and adjust your boundaries. Once you’re able to say “No” to things that you genuinely don´t approve of, you can uphold your dating boundaries.
8. UNTIL A MAN STEPS UP AND CLAIMS YOU, YOU ARE OPEN TO DATE OTHER MEN SIMULTANEOUSLY.
Experts agree that you can date three men simultaneously provided you can uphold your dating boundaries. Doing this will enable you to discover Mr. Right.
9. YOU LOVE BEING WITH HIM BUT MAINTAIN YOUR INDEPENDENCE.
To sustain a man´s interest longer than a few dates, let him know you desire his closeness you but you find pleasure from your freedom. A man’s desire to claim the title of Mr. Right would intensify when you appear cheerful in your independence yet eager for his intimacy.
10. ENJOY YOUR DATING JOURNEY.
Men pull away in an early phase of dating if they felt pressured. This happens when you hold more serious talk instead of having fun and enjoying your dating journey without compromising your dating boundaries. Focus on getting to know each other more
How Can I Find the Right Guy
Use as guide our discussion on “WHY DO I ATTRACT GUYS WHO WOULD WANT TO SLEEP WITH ME” and “HOW MAY A GIRL ATTRACT GUYS WHO WANT TO SLEEP WITH HER”. Follow the guide:
- Keep sending the right signals that you want to meet Mr. Right, instead of signals you want to meet someone to sleep with.
- Instead of parading around looking for Mr. Right, go to the right places which “Sports Fishers” fear to tread. Being at sports festivals, volunteer programs, and wholesome activities will give you opportunities to attract Mr. Right.
- Learn and implement what you could apply among the Ten Traits of a “High-Value Woman” and you’ll likely meet and make it with Mr. Right in no time.
Blame no one else that your partner turned out to be Mr. Wrong. It was you who decided to let him be in your bed and life. This calls to mind stinging quotations, call them unwise wisecracks if you would:
- “You can’t commit the same mistake twice. The second time you make it, it’s not a mistake anymore; it’s a choice.”
- Dial a wrong number once – it’s an Accident; Twice- it’s a Coincidence; Thrice- it’s a Pattern.
Getting laid and be left behind is your choice. You don’t want the end result where he only wants to sleep with me but not commit. Make the right choice next time.
Frequently Asked Questions
Men are drawn to women who are genuinely interested in them and are not afraid to express it.
Smile, make eye contact, and laugh at his jokes (if you think they're funny) when conversing with a potential partner.
Men with a relatively narrow waist, a V-shaped chest, and wide shoulders are more attractive to women on average.
Women are often drawn to men who are taller than they are, have a high degree of facial symmetry, and have relatively masculine facial dimorphism.
Making a move on you and either implying or outwardly saying that a man is turned on or asking if you want to take it further is an obvious indication that a guy has been turned on by you.
You may notice a small rise in his body heat or he may become more touchy-feely.